The Problem: Why Teams Forget
Before I explain the solution, I need you to feel the problem. Let me tell you a story.
Imagine a small startup. Five engineers. They’ve been working together for two years. Everyone just knows that the payments service can’t handle more than 200 requests per second because of a database decision made in month three. Nobody ever wrote it down. It lives in their collective memory.
Now the lead engineer leaves. A new person joins. In their first week, they deploy a change that sends 500 requests per second to that service. Production goes down.
Think of a team’s knowledge like a coral reef. Each conversation, decision, and experience is a tiny organism that builds on the ones before it. The reef is alive. It grows. But it only exists in the minds of the people who were there. When someone leaves, a piece of the reef crumbles into sand — and nobody even notices until something breaks.
This isn’t a hypothetical. KK, the founder of Pulse HQ, put it bluntly:
“A lot of bigger companies don’t document stuff. There is a memory within the team — everyone knows, but it’s not documented. The problem arises when they’re not there.”
Why don’t teams just write everything down? Why do Confluence pages, wikis, and docs always end up outdated and useless?
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Because documentation is a separate act from working. It requires someone to stop, switch context, open a tool, and write. In a fast-moving team, that extra step almost never happens. The knowledge exists in Slack threads, meeting conversations, pull request comments, and verbal decisions — but it’s scattered, unstructured, and unsearchable.
The solution isn’t “write more docs.” The solution is a system that listens to all those signals and builds the documentation automatically.
The Big Idea: A Brain That Never Forgets
Here’s the core concept I want you to carry through every chapter that follows. If you get this, everything else is just details.
A contextual memory layer is a system that sits between all of your communication channels (meetings, Slack, email, code) and your AI tools. It continuously:
- Listens to every signal coming in
- Understands what was said — who, what, when, why
- Remembers by storing it in a structured, searchable way
- Retrieves the right context instantly when someone asks
Imagine the most incredible executive assistant you’ve ever met. They sit in every meeting, read every email, overhear every hallway conversation. But they don’t just record things — they understand them. They know that when you said “we should talk to the payments team” in Tuesday’s standup, you were talking about the same issue Sarah raised in Slack on Monday. They connect the dots. And when you ask “what’s the status of the payments migration?” they give you a perfect answer in under a second, drawing from everything they’ve ever heard.
That assistant is the contextual memory layer.
This is exactly what Pulse HQ built. Their product “Scooby” joins your meetings, reads your Slack, and builds a living memory graph that the whole team can query. It even attends meetings on behalf of absent team members, sharing their recent context.
Pulse HQ runs their entire contextual memory layer on a single piece of hardware — the NVIDIA DGX Spark — that uses 140 watts of power (less than a desktop gaming PC) and plugs into a wall outlet. No cloud. No data center. Your data never leaves the box.
Now, Pulse HQ built this for teams. But the same architecture works for a personal AI too. Instead of team meetings, imagine your daily conversations captured by a wearable. Instead of Slack threads, imagine your notes, ideas, and promises. That’s what her-os is — a personal contextual memory layer. Same architecture. Different scale.
Layer 1: Ingestion — Collecting the Signals
Every complex system starts with a simple question: where does the data come from? Before we can remember anything, we need to listen. Let’s look at how.
Think of a hotel concierge desk. Guests arrive from different directions — the front door, the elevator, the parking garage. The concierge doesn’t care how they arrived. They greet everyone the same way, take their name, note their request, and send them to the right place. The Ingestion Layer is that concierge — it receives signals from many different sources and normalizes them into a consistent format.
What signals come in?
- Meeting transcripts — from Zoom, Google Meet, or (for her-os) the Omi wearable
- Slack / chat messages — threads, DMs, channel conversations
- Emails — threads, replies, forwards
- Tickets — Jira, Linear, GitHub Issues
- Code changes — pull requests, commits, code reviews
- Documents — Google Docs, Notion, wikis
What this layer does
Why wait 5 minutes? Why not process everything instantly?
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Think about how your own brain works. If someone says “hey, did you see the game last night?” in the elevator, you don’t file that as a permanent memory. You wait to see if it turns into something meaningful. The 5-minute window does the same thing — it separates signal from noise by giving the system more context before deciding what to remember.
It also helps with efficiency: processing one batch of 50 messages is much faster than processing 50 individual messages one at a time.
This entire layer runs on the CPU. It’s all about waiting for data and organizing it — no heavy computation needed. The GPU enters the picture in Layer 2.
Layer 2: Understanding — The Detective’s Corkboard
This is where the magic happens. Layer 1 collected the raw signals. Now we need to understand them. Here’s the question I want you to hold: what does it actually mean to “understand” a conversation?
Picture a detective in a crime drama. They have a corkboard on the wall. They pin up photos of people, locations, events. Then they draw strings between the pins — “Alice knows Bob,” “Bob was at the warehouse,” “the warehouse fire happened on Tuesday.” That corkboard is what Layer 2 builds. The pins are entities. The strings are relationships.
The detective's corkboard: entities are pins, relationships are strings
Layer 2 runs four GPU workloads on every batch of text that comes from Layer 1:
Workload 1: Entity Extraction
“Who and what is being talked about?”
The system reads the text and identifies entities: people (Alice, Bob), projects (Payments Migration), tickets (JIRA-1234), decisions (“we’ll use PostgreSQL”), dates, and events.
The AI models used: DeBERTa and GLiNER — small, fast models
specifically designed to find named entities in text. They process 500–1,000+ chunks
per minute on GPU.
It’s like a highlighter. You give it a paragraph, and it highlights every person’s name in yellow, every project in blue, every date in green. Fast, mechanical, precise.
Workload 2: Relationship Linking
“How are these entities connected?”
Finding entities isn’t enough. We need to know how they relate. “Alice owns the Payments Migration.” “JIRA-1234 is blocked by the database upgrade.” “The decision to use PostgreSQL was made in Tuesday’s standup.”
This requires a 7-billion parameter language model — it needs real language understanding to figure out that “Alice said she’d handle it” means Alice owns the task.
Workload 3: Embedding Generation
“What does this text mean?”
We’ll cover this deeply in Chapter 7, but in short: the system converts every piece of text into a list of numbers (a “vector”) that captures its meaning. This enables finding related information by meaning, not just by keywords.
Workload 4: Semantic Indexing
“Organize all those vectors so we can search them instantly.”
The vectors get stored in a special searchable structure (an “index”) that lets us
find the most similar ones in milliseconds — even among millions. Uses FAISS-GPU
and cuVS.
All four workloads run on the GPU. This is why GPU hardware matters — doing this on a regular CPU would be 10–50x slower, turning a real-time system into something that takes minutes or hours to process each batch.
The Knowledge Graph: Mind Map vs. Spreadsheet
Here’s a question: why not just put everything in a database? You know — rows and columns, like a spreadsheet. That’s what most software does. Why do we need something called a “knowledge graph?”
Spreadsheet Approach
| Person | Project | Role |
|---|---|---|
| Alice | Payments | Owner |
| Bob | Payments | Reviewer |
| Alice | Auth | Advisor |
“Who knows about the auth system that Alice advises on, and is also connected to Bob?”
Requires joining 3 tables. Slow. Awkward.
Graph Approach
Follow the edges. Instant traversal.
Connections ARE the data structure.
A spreadsheet is like a filing cabinet. Everything is organized in folders and drawers. To find connections between things in different drawers, you have to open each one, pull out the file, read it, and manually match them up.
A knowledge graph is like a mind map on a whiteboard. Every idea is a sticky note, and the arrows between them are the connections. You can start at any note and follow arrows to find everything related. The structure itself tells the story.
When someone asks “what does Alice know about the payments system?” a graph can answer by simply walking the connections: Alice → owns → Payments → blocked_by → Database Upgrade. The answer isn’t in a single row — it’s in the shape of the connections.
Pulse HQ uses a graph database embedded directly on the hardware — not a cloud service, not a separate server. The graph lives in the same memory as everything else, making traversal nearly instant.
The Hypergraph Twist: Why Edges Need Context
Now here’s where it gets interesting. A regular graph edge says “Alice knows Bob.” But that’s not how real life works, is it? When did they meet? How do they know each other? Is that still true? The edge itself needs to carry information.
Consider this real conversation from a standup meeting:
“KK, Alice, and Bob discussed the config change that caused the CPU spike in Tuesday’s standup.”
This one sentence involves seven things: three people, a config change, a CPU spike, a meeting type, and a day. They’re all connected simultaneously — not in pairs, but as a group.
Regular Graph
Needs a fake “Meeting_123” node plus separate pair edges to each participant and topic
Hypergraph
ONE hyperedge connecting all 7 things simultaneously, preserving the grouping
Regular graph = individual selfies. You have a photo of Alice, a photo of Bob, a photo of the whiteboard. They were all at the meeting, but you can’t prove it from the photos alone.
Hypergraph = a group photo. Everyone is in the same frame. The grouping itself is the information. You can see who was there, what was on the whiteboard, and that it all happened at the same moment.
In Pulse HQ’s system, every edge carries:
- Timestamps — when was this fact true? (not just “Alice knows Bob” but “Alice knew Bob as of Feb 2026”)
- Context — what conversation created this connection?
- Confidence — how sure are we about this relationship?
- Source — which meeting or message did this come from?
How it’s actually built
There’s no production-ready “hypergraph database” you can install. Instead, the industry uses a clever trick called the meta-node pattern: you create a special “event” node that represents the hyperedge, then connect all participants to that event with role labels. It’s mathematically equivalent to a hypergraph, and works in standard graph databases like Neo4j.
KK describes it as “maintaining a garden” — the graph is continuously pruned, with stale connections weakened and fresh ones strengthened. Old memories don’t disappear; they fade, just like in a human brain.
Embeddings: Finding by Feeling
This is one of the most powerful ideas in modern AI, and it’s surprisingly simple once you see it. Let me ask you: if you search Google for “my app is slow,” should it also find a document about “performance optimization techniques”?
Of course! They’re about the same thing. But the words are completely different. How does a computer know they’re related?
Traditional search works by matching keywords. You type “payments bug” and it finds documents containing exactly those words. But what if the relevant document says “transaction processing error”? Traditional search misses it entirely.
Embeddings solve this by converting text into positions in meaning-space.
Imagine a huge room — a warehouse. Every concept in the world has a physical location in this room. “Dog” is near “puppy” and “pet.” “Cat” is nearby too, but a bit further. “Rocket ship” is way across the room. When you search for “my app is slow,” the system converts your question into a location in the room, then looks for the closest documents. “Performance optimization” is standing right next to it, even though the words are different.
The “room” has thousands of dimensions (not just 3), which is why it can capture incredibly subtle differences in meaning. But the principle is identical to physical distance.
An embedding model takes a sentence and outputs a list of numbers — typically 2,048 to 4,096 numbers — that represent its meaning. Sentences with similar meanings produce similar numbers.
Pulse HQ uses NV-Embed-v2 (7.85 billion parameters, ranked #1 on MTEB in Aug 2024). The embedding landscape has shifted dramatically since that video. For her-os, we’re going with Qwen3-Embedding-8B — #3 on MTEB Multilingual (less than 1 point behind #2), but with a fully open Apache 2.0 license and superior features that make it the clear winner for our use case.
her-os choice: Qwen3-Embedding-8B — top-tier quality, Apache 2.0, zero compromises
The embedding model landscape evolved fast. Here’s how the top contenders compare:
| Factor | NV-Embed-v2 | embed-nemotron-8b | Qwen3-Embedding-8B (our pick) |
|---|---|---|---|
| MTEB Multilingual v2 | Former #1 (Aug 2024) | #2 (Oct 2025, 71.49 mean) | #3 (Jun 2025, 70.58 mean) |
| Parameters | 7.85B | 7.5B | 8B |
| Memory (GPU) | ~16 GB | ~15 GB | ~15 GB (BF16) |
| Dimensions | 4096 (fixed) | 4096 (fixed) | 32–4096 (Matryoshka) |
| Max context | 32K tokens | 32K tokens | 32K tokens |
| Languages | English-focused | ~53 | 100+ languages |
| License | CC-BY-NC-4.0 | NSCL (non-commercial) | Apache 2.0 |
| Download | Free | Free | Free, no gate |
Let me be honest about the quality picture first, then explain why Qwen3 still wins:
1. Quality: top-3, not #1. As of Feb 2026, the MTEB Multilingual v2 leaderboard shows: #1 KaLM-Embedding-GemmaV2 (72.32 mean, but 11.8B params and ~44 GB — too heavy), #2 NVIDIA embed-nemotron-8b (71.49 mean), #3 Qwen3-Embedding-8B (70.58 mean). Qwen3 is less than 1 point behind Nemotron. Both are world-class; the difference is negligible for personal memory retrieval.
2. Apache 2.0 — this is the real differentiator. With quality being nearly equal, the license decides everything. Apache 2.0 means we can use it for personal, commercial, or anything in between. Forever. No “ask for forgiveness.” No approaching NVIDIA for enterprise terms. Both NVIDIA models (NV-Embed-v2 and embed-nemotron-8b) are restricted to non-commercial use. KaLM-Embedding needs ~44 GB of memory — that’s a third of our DGX Spark just for embeddings.
3. Matryoshka dimensions (32–4096). This was the one advantage NVIDIA’s 1B model had over its own 8B models. Qwen3 gives us Matryoshka at the 8B quality tier. Use 384-dim for fast coarse search, full 4096-dim for final ranking. Up to 35x storage savings. Best quality and best storage efficiency.
4. 32K context + 100+ languages. Same context window as the NVIDIA 8B models, but with support for over 100 languages instead of ~53. Plus built-in code retrieval capabilities.
5. It fits comfortably on our hardware. At ~15 GB in BF16, the model uses about 12% of our DGX Spark’s 128 GB unified memory. With all other components loaded (knowledge graph, vector index, re-ranker, NER models, OS), we use ~28 GB total — leaving 100 GB of headroom.
Will the 8B model be fast enough? Pulse HQ’s <100ms target was validated with NV-Embed-v2 — does Qwen3 hit the same speed?
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Yes. Both models are ~8B parameters, so inference time is comparable. The query embedding step takes ~15–20ms (vs ~5–10ms for a 1B model), but the full retrieval pipeline still lands at ~27–60ms — well under the 100ms target.
The breakdown: query embed (~15–20ms) + vector search (1–5ms) + graph traversal (1–5ms) + re-ranking (10–30ms) = ~27–60ms total. And with TensorRT optimization on our DGX Spark’s Tensor Cores, that embedding step could drop to ~10–15ms.
Better embeddings also mean better retrieval quality, which can actually reduce re-ranking time — the re-ranker has less work when the initial candidates are already high quality.
The principle: The best model on a benchmark isn’t always the best model for your system. Qwen3-Embedding-8B is #3 on MTEB — less than 1 point behind #2 — but it has Apache 2.0, Matryoshka dimensions, 100+ languages, and half the memory footprint of #1. When you factor in license, features, and hardware fit, the “third best” model is the best choice by far.
Decision Journal: How We Got Here
We didn’t land on Qwen3-Embedding-8B immediately. This was a multi-step investigation with real questions and wrong turns. Documenting the journey so future-you remembers why, not just what.
Q1: Why not just use NV-Embed-v2 like Pulse HQ?
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Our first instinct was to follow Pulse HQ exactly. They use NV-Embed-v2 on their DGX Spark and it works. But NV-Embed-v2 carries a CC-BY-NC-4.0 license — non-commercial only. her-os is personal today, but we don’t want to hit a licensing wall if it ever becomes something bigger. This led us to look at NVIDIA’s commercially-licensed alternative: llama-nemotron-embed-1b-v2 (1B params, NVIDIA Open license).
Q2: If NV-Embed-v2 is non-commercial, how does Pulse HQ use it?
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Pulse HQ was featured in an official NVIDIA promotional video about DGX Spark. They almost certainly have a direct commercial agreement with NVIDIA — either through NIM enterprise licensing, a partnership deal, or internal-use terms that differ from the public HuggingFace license. NVIDIA offers dual licensing: the public HuggingFace release (non-commercial) and enterprise access through NIM (commercial terms). Most companies in NVIDIA’s ecosystem use the latter.
Q3: What about NVIDIA’s newer model — llama-embed-nemotron-8b?
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We discovered that NV-Embed-v2 was actually surpassed by NVIDIA’s own llama-embed-nemotron-8b (Oct 2025), which took #1 on MTEB. But it also uses a non-commercial license (NSCL — NVIDIA Software and Content License). So both of NVIDIA’s top embedding models block commercial use. NVIDIA themselves explicitly recommend their 1B model for commercial applications.
Q4: Could we approach NVIDIA directly for a commercial license?
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Yes — and we could still do this. We own two DGX Sparks. We’re exactly the showcase NVIDIA wants for their hardware. The path would be: build a working prototype, contact NVIDIA developer relations, demonstrate the use case, and negotiate enterprise terms for the 8B model. But this introduces an external dependency on a corporate relationship before we can even start building. We’d rather start with zero blockers and pursue NVIDIA access in parallel if needed.
Q5: Can we even download llama-embed-nemotron-8b today?
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Yes. The model is publicly available on HuggingFace with no gating — you can download the ~15 GB model weights directly. The NSCL license restricts commercial use, not downloading or personal/research use. So technically we could download it and use it for personal development immediately. The question was always about long-term licensing, not access.
Q6: Wait — what’s actually #1 on MTEB right now (Feb 2026)?
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This question changed everything. When we checked the actual MTEB Multilingual v2 leaderboard (Feb 2026 screenshot), here’s what it shows:
#1: KaLM-Embedding-GemmaV2 (72.32 mean) — but 11.8B params, ~44 GB memory. Too heavy; that’s a third of our DGX Spark just for embeddings.
#2: NVIDIA embed-nemotron-8b (71.49 mean) — 7.5B params, non-commercial NSCL license.
#3: Qwen3-Embedding-8B (70.58 mean) — 8B params, Apache 2.0, Matryoshka, 100+ languages.
Qwen3 is less than 1 point behind #2 on quality. But it has Apache 2.0 (vs NSCL non-commercial), Matryoshka dimensions (vs fixed 4096), 100+ languages (vs ~53), and half the memory of #1. When you factor in license, features, and hardware fit — the #3 model is the best choice for our system.
Q7: Will Qwen3-8B actually run on our DGX Spark and hit <100ms?
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Yes. Same parameter class (~8B) as the NVIDIA models Pulse HQ validated. Memory: ~15 GB BF16, leaving 100 GB headroom on our 128 GB Spark. Latency: query embedding ~15–20ms (same as any 8B model), total pipeline ~27–60ms — well under 100ms. With TensorRT optimization on the Spark’s Tensor Cores, the embedding step could drop further to ~10–15ms. Standard HuggingFace Transformers integration, 1.9M downloads/month, huge community support.
Q8: Should we use Qwen3-Embedding-4B instead? It’s half the memory and twice as fast.
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Tempting, but no. The Qwen3 family comes in three sizes (0.6B, 4B, 8B), all Apache 2.0 with Matryoshka support. Here’s how 4B and 8B compare:
| Factor | Qwen3-Embedding-4B | Qwen3-Embedding-8B (our pick) |
|---|---|---|
| MTEB Multilingual v2 | #5 (69.45 mean) | #3 (70.58 mean) |
| Memory (BF16) | ~8 GB | ~15 GB |
| Query embed speed | ~8–10 ms | ~15–20 ms |
| Max dimensions | 2560 (Matryoshka) | 4096 (Matryoshka) |
| Context / Languages | 32K / 100+ | 32K / 100+ |
Why we stick with 8B:
1. 1.13 points matters. In embedding benchmarks, that’s the difference between finding the right memory and missing it. For a personal memory system, retrieval quality is everything — there’s no “close enough.”
2. We have the headroom. 15 GB out of 128 GB is nothing. The 4B saves 7 GB we don’t need. If we were on a 16 GB GPU, the 4B would be the obvious choice. On a 128 GB DGX Spark? Use the best.
3. Speed is already fine. The 8B takes ~15–20ms for query embedding. Our full pipeline is ~27–60ms — well under the 100ms target. Saving 5–10ms on the embedding step doesn’t change the user experience.
4. Higher max dimension (4096 vs 2560). More dimensions = more precision in meaning-space. For nuanced personal conversations (“what did we discuss about the budget concern?” vs “what was the budget number?”), that precision matters.
The rule: Use the largest model your hardware can comfortably run. Our hardware can comfortably run the 8B. Decision made.
The decision journey in one sentence: We started by copying Pulse HQ’s choice (NV-Embed-v2), discovered it was non-commercial, considered the safe NVIDIA alternative (1B), challenged ourselves to use the best regardless of licensing, checked the actual MTEB leaderboard, considered whether 4B was enough, and landed on Qwen3-Embedding-8B — #3 by less than 1 point, but the best choice when you factor in license, features, hardware fit, and retrieval quality. The benchmark score isn’t the whole story; the best model for your system isn’t always the highest number on the chart.
Vector Search: Finding Neighbors Fast
Once you have millions of these number-lists (“vectors”), you need to find the closest ones
fast. That’s what FAISS (by Meta) does. On a GPU, it can search through
millions of vectors in under 5 milliseconds.
If embeddings are so good at finding meaning, why do we also need the knowledge graph? Can’t we just embed everything and search by vectors?
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Great question! Embeddings capture semantic similarity — “these texts feel similar.” But they don’t capture structured relationships — “Alice owns the project that depends on the database that Bob is migrating.”
You need both: the graph gives you precise, structured connections; embeddings give you fuzzy, meaning-based associations. Pulse HQ (and OpenClaw independently) found that hybrid search — combining both — dramatically outperforms either one alone. The typical split: 70% vector similarity + 30% keyword/graph matching.
Three Tiers of Memory: How Brains Actually Work
KK said something in the video that really stuck with me: “Imagine you go on a vacation. You might not remember which hotel room you stayed at last year, but you remember you went for a vacation.”
Your brain doesn’t store everything at the same level of detail. Neither should an AI memory system. Let me show you the three tiers.
Three tiers: raw footage → working notebook → chapter summary
Raw events with full detail and timestamps. “At 2:15 PM on Tuesday, KK said the config change caused a CPU spike.” Everything is preserved exactly as it happened. This is the “security camera footage” of memory.
Recent context with full detail, organized by meaning. The current sprint’s work, this week’s conversations, active relationships. This is your “working memory” — what you’re actively thinking about.
Summarized, compressed, only the significant facts. “There was a major config incident in February 2026 that led to the reliability initiative.” Details are pruned; the essence remains.
L0 is a diary. Every detail, every day, exactly as it happened. After a year, you have 365 entries and it takes forever to find anything useful.
L1 is a working notebook. This week’s tasks, active conversations, things you need to act on. You update it constantly and refer to it throughout the day.
L2 is a chapter summary. “In Q1 2026, the team migrated to PostgreSQL and hired three engineers.” You lose the daily detail, but the important narrative is preserved forever.
The key insight: memories flow downward over time. Today’s raw conversation (L0) gets incorporated into this week’s context (L1). At the end of the month, the significant patterns get compressed into long-term memory (L2). The details fade. The meaning stays.
KK calls this “maintaining a garden” — periodically pruning old connections, letting irrelevant details decompose, while the important structures grow stronger.
GPU: The Speed Secret
You keep hearing “GPU this, GPU that.” Let me explain why it matters, because this is the difference between a system that takes 2 seconds to respond and one that takes 20 milliseconds.
A CPU is a brilliant professor. They can solve incredibly complex problems, one at a time, very fast. Need to calculate a rocket trajectory? Perfect. But if you hand them 1,000 student papers to grade, they’ll do them one by one.
A GPU is a stadium full of 6,144 teaching assistants. None of them is as brilliant as the professor, but they can each grade a paper simultaneously. 1,000 papers? Done in one pass.
AI workloads are exactly like grading 1,000 papers. Each embedding calculation, each vector comparison, each entity extraction — they’re all the same operation repeated thousands of times. Perfect for the stadium of teaching assistants.
One professor vs. 6,144 teaching assistants — that's the CPU vs. GPU difference
Each dot = one CUDA core. The DGX Spark has 6,144 of them. They all work simultaneously.
How much faster?
The DGX Spark’s GPU has 6,144 CUDA cores and 192 Tensor Cores (specialized for AI math). It can perform 1 petaflop of AI operations per second — that’s 1,000,000,000,000,000 calculations per second. And it only uses 140 watts — less than two light bulbs.
Unified Memory: The Game Changer
This is the most underappreciated concept in the entire architecture. It’s the reason all of this can run on a single box that plugs into your wall outlet. Let me explain why it matters so much.
In a traditional computer, the CPU and GPU have separate rooms. The CPU works in the office. The GPU works in the workshop. Every time the CPU needs the GPU to do something, it has to walk down the hall, hand over the documents, wait for the GPU to finish, then walk back to get the results. This “walking” — copying data between CPU memory and GPU memory — is the biggest bottleneck in AI systems. It often takes longer than the actual computation.
Unified memory means they share the same desk. The CPU and GPU sit side by side, looking at the same papers. No walking. No copying. The embedding model, the vector index, the knowledge graph, the re-ranker — they all live in the same 128 GB of memory, accessible to both CPU and GPU instantly.
KK from Pulse HQ said it best:
“I could not have imagined this two years ago — the entire stack in one hardware, sharing the same memory.”
What fits in 128 GB?
| Component | Memory | What it does |
|---|---|---|
| Embedding model (Qwen3-8B) | ~15 GB | Converts text to meaning-vectors (#1 MTEB) |
| Cross-encoder re-ranker | ~1–2 GB | Scores result relevance |
| Entity extraction models | ~2–3 GB | Finds people, projects, decisions |
| Whisper (transcription) | ~3 GB | Speech to text |
| Vector index (FAISS) | ~2–5 GB | Searchable vector database |
| Knowledge graph | ~2–3 GB | Entity-relationship structure |
| Total used | ~28 GB | |
| Remaining headroom | ~100 GB | Room for growth, larger models, or LLM |
The context engine uses only ~22% of available memory — even with the #1 ranked 8B embedding model. There is massive headroom for growth — millions of memories, larger models, or even running a reasoning LLM alongside it on the same machine.
The <100ms Magic: Speed of Thought
Now we put it all together. When someone asks a question, the system needs to understand the question, search the memory, walk the graph, rank the results, and return the answer — all in under 100 milliseconds. That’s faster than a human blink (300ms). Here’s how each step contributes.
Why so fast?
- No network hop — everything is on one machine, no round-trip to a cloud server
- No CPU↔GPU copy — unified memory means zero-copy operations
- GPU parallelism — 6,144 cores searching simultaneously
- Optimized models — TensorRT compiles models for maximum speed on this specific GPU
- Pipeline chaining — Triton runs embed → search → re-rank as one continuous GPU operation
What Pulse HQ was spending on cloud inference for ONE customer
140W wall outlet ≈ $15/month. Hardware: ~$3,000 one-time.
For comparison: cloud-based retrieval with RAG takes 5–10 seconds. CPU-based local retrieval takes 2+ seconds. This system does it in 20–50 milliseconds. That’s not an incremental improvement. That’s a fundamentally different user experience.
Your Decision Map: What to Build First
Now you understand the architecture. You know what each piece does and why it matters. The last question is the most important one: in what order do we build it?
Remember: Pulse HQ runs all of this on one DGX Spark. We have two — Beast and Titan. The technology is mostly open source. The question isn’t “can we?” — it’s “what first?”
The Stack Is Open Source
| Component | License | Commercial OK? |
|---|---|---|
| FAISS (vector search) | MIT | Yes |
| cuVS (GPU vector search) | Apache 2.0 | Yes |
| cuGraph (GPU graph analytics) | Apache 2.0 | Yes |
| Triton (model serving) | BSD-3 | Yes |
| Graphiti (temporal graph) | Apache 2.0 | Yes |
| Embedding model (Qwen3-8B) | Apache 2.0 | Yes |
Phase 1: The Foundation (Now)
Get the pipeline working end-to-end. Correctness over speed.
Temporal Knowledge Graph with Graphiti
Graph storage (Neo4j or FalkorDB) + Graphiti for temporal edges + meta-node pattern for hyperedge semantics. This is the core data structure everything else builds on.
Local Embedding on Titan
Run Qwen3-Embedding-8B locally (~15 GB, Apache 2.0). #1 MTEB quality, Matryoshka dimensions (32–4096), 32K context, 100+ languages. Zero API calls, zero cost, full privacy. Simple SQLite + vec0 for vector search at MVP scale.
Hybrid Search (70/30)
Vector similarity (70%) + BM25 keyword matching (30%). Both Pulse HQ and OpenClaw independently converged on this pattern. It works.
5-Minute Noise Filter
Batch incoming signals in 5-minute windows before processing. Separates meaningful conversation from casual noise.
Phase 2: GPU Acceleration
Turn the working pipeline into a fast one. Upgrade components in place.
GPU FAISS + cuVS
Replace SQLite vec0 with GPU-accelerated vector search. 10–50x faster for 100K+ vectors.
cuGraph for Graph Analytics
GPU-accelerated graph traversal, community detection, and PageRank. Drop-in replacement for NetworkX.
Cross-Encoder Re-Ranking on Triton
After hybrid search retrieves candidates, a cross-encoder scores each one against the query with full attention. This is what gets retrieval from “good” to “great.”
GPU Entity Extraction Pipeline
DeBERTa/GLiNER on GPU for 500+ chunks/min instead of 50 on CPU. 10x throughput improvement.
Phase 3: Full Vision
Push the boundaries. Stack hardware. Self-evolving memory.
Stacked Cluster: Beast + Titan
Connect via ConnectX-7 cable. 256 GB unified memory. Run 405B parameter models locally. The full vision.
Self-Evolving Memory
The AI agent writes its own extraction rules. Memory that improves itself over months and years. The “Alter Ego” dimension.
Let me leave you with the key insight from this entire analysis:
The technology to build a real-time contextual memory layer already exists, is mostly open source, and runs on hardware you already own.
The gap is not hardware. Not software. Not architecture. It’s orchestration — wiring FAISS + cuGraph + embeddings + cross-encoders into a coherent pipeline that achieves <100ms retrieval with meaningful results.
The question is no longer “can we build this?” — it’s “in what order do we build it?” And now you have the map.
Key metrics to target:
| Metric | Pulse HQ | her-os Target |
|---|---|---|
| Context retrieval | <100ms | <60ms (Qwen3-8B + smaller scale) |
| Entity extraction | 500 chunks/min | 200+ chunks/min |
| Memory freshness | 5–10 min | 5 min batch |
| Data residency | 100% local | 100% local |
| Always-on | 1 Spark | Titan (140W, wall outlet) |